5 Reasons Why Your Child Needs a Social Skills Guide — Because Hoping They'll "Grow Out of It" Rarely Works

One in Five Kids Doesn't Have Enough Friends — And They Almost Never Tell You

A University of Michigan national poll found that roughly one in five parents say their child has no friends or not enough friends — and 90% of those kids would like to make new ones.

Here's the part that hurts: it's rarely because something is wrong with them. Making friends takes dozens of small skills — how to join a group, start a conversation, keep it going, recover from an awkward moment. Nobody is born knowing them. And school doesn't teach them.

The kids who struggle didn't fail. They were just never shown how.

The good news: social skills are learnable. Not through lectures or "just be yourself" pep talks — through the actual words, shown scenario by scenario.

That's exactly what What Can I Say? does.

Most "Behavior Problems" Are Actually Words Problems

The door slam. The meltdown. The silent shutdown at the dinner table.

Here's what most parents get wrong: it's not that kids can't handle big emotions. It's that nobody ever gave them the words. A kid who can't say "that hurt my feelings" slams a door instead. A kid who doesn't know how to ask for help just quietly struggles.

Telling them to "calm down" or "use your words" doesn't work — because nobody ever taught them which words.

What Can I Say? hands them the actual language: how to apologize and mean it, say what they're feeling, ask for help, set a boundary, walk away from a friend who keeps hurting them. Real scripts for real moments — so the feeling has somewhere to go besides the slammed door.

It's Written for Your Kid — Not for You to Lecture From

Here's the problem with most social skills resources: they're written for parents to read, digest, and then teach. More homework for you. More awkward forced practice your child resists.

What Can I Say? flips that. It's written directly to kids, in their language, laid out like a graphic novel — speech bubbles, illustrations, funny moments, real scenarios they recognize from their own lives.

Real situations covered inside:

• "I don't know what to say" — how to meet and greet people, and keep a conversation going
• "I said something wrong" — how to apologize and actually mean it
• "My friend keeps being mean to me" — how to stand up for yourself, and when it's okay to step back from a friendship
• "I need help but I don't want to ask" — how to ask for help without feeling small
• "Everyone's gossiping" — how to shut it down without making it worse
• "Something hard is happening" — how to talk about the big stuff: grief, fear, disappointment

Kids read it because they want to — at bedtime, on the couch, on their own. And every page opens a conversation you'd never have managed to start cold.

Written by a Beloved Children's Book Author Who Gets How Kids Actually Talk

What Can I Say? is the work of a beloved, bestselling children's book author who has spent years writing about family life and the small, real moments of growing up — and it shows: nothing in this book reads like a therapist wrote it.

No clinical jargon. No vague "be confident!" advice. Just warm, funny, practical guidance in language kids genuinely connect with — which is exactly why they read it on their own instead of leaving it on the shelf.

It covers everything from first introductions to the genuinely hard stuff — and because it spans ages 6–12, it's one book that grows with your child for years instead of being outgrown in a season.

Here's What Parents Tell Us After Their Kids Read It

Every review below is from a real customer. This is what changes when a kid finally has the words.

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Give them the words. The rest follows.